Hi there everyone I am going to be uploading 2 quality videos a week and that is all. This particular one I am very proud of as it is to help anyone in a relationship who is either Aspergers or is a partner of an Aspie to try and understand what makes them tick and hopefully will save the relationship should it be spiralling out of control.
I am old school and always put 100% into a relationship but there comes a time when you realise you are fighting a losing battle. If you find it hard to communicate or you just seem to get on each others nerves then its time to sit down and talk.
In these practical steps I explain why an Aspie can appear difficult. Why explaining things in more detail can stop a lot of melt downs. How practical steps can avoid problems in the future.
This is sort of an amalgamation of a lot of my videos in the past about relationships. But now I can look on it with more humour rather than be as serious as I was and bitter in the past. A lot of the relationship advise I gave was stemming from my own experiences. If they were negative then that came out in the videos and that would not help anyone.
With Aspergers or Autistic Related Disorders a lot of allowances must be made for the relationship to work. If you are not prepared to make them then you may as well give up and find some NT that meets your requirements.
Relationships are hard work. Unless you are on a film set with an actor or actress relationships will always be hard work. Anyone can pretend and act it takes guts to sit down and admit there is a problem and try and discuss it in an adult fashion. Shouting at the problem will not make it go away.
In my experience not all Aspies are alike some are selfish and refuse to change and refuse to adapt. This does not make them bad people but these kind of Aspies can be control freaks and that is not healthy for any relationship.
Similarly if you are an Aspie in a relationship where an NT Woman is trying to control and change you and constantly makes fun of your ways then ditch her as well cause it is better to be alone than in a relationship and be miserable.
Signs of a controlling Woman are:
Wants to know where you are going
Wants to text you all the time to see what you are doing
Expects you to do what she wants but laughs at your ways
Talks about you or belittles you in front of her friends
Laughs at any hobbies you may have but thinks hers are amazing
Makes fun of your Aspergers and says its all in the mind and not real
Reads your Diary and points out how stupid you are writing one
Rips up your Diary as she feels that you are stupid writing one
Hits out defiantly dump her then
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